If there is something that bothers you, sometimes the best way to get rid of it is for you to leave. A silent action can be more effective than putting up with a fight that becomes more of a nusience than it is worth.
When people try to help others, sometimes pushing in one direction can send someone into the opposite. You are here to find comfort, to realize that the world is not that horrible place you think it is, and you are here to help others who feel the same way you once did. So hate me, love me not.